Weekend update and MySpace

Hi guys,

This weekend was a bit of a failure. Most of the guys I hang around with have little to no skill/desire to improve themselves with women. Every time i tell them about this community they brush it off like "no way, that doesnt work" (like as if they have already tried it). I think i need to get good at it myself before people start believing me. I would probably be considered the alpha-male of our group, but thats not really anything to brag about as most of the guys that I hang around with are pretty lacklustre. I really need to get some good wingmen who are better at attracting women then I am.

I got some IOI's from a few HB6-8 in there, although I failed to take action for one reason or another (partly my ignorance - ie not realising that it was an IOI until it was too late and AA)

Anyone who is in the Newcastle area hit me up alexvega96@gmail.com. Lets help each other get this part of our lives sorted.

Anyway, one of the chicks I was geting IOI's from i just realised she was on my MySpace friends list... She's a HB8, super hot and probably one of the hottest chicks there that night. I sent her the following message:
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hey dork whats up... was going through my friends list deleting ppl that i dont know and when i came to you was like wtf ... I'm sure i saw you at king st on sat night.

I'm trying to figure out whether to keep you on my list... What have you got going for you other then your looks? Beauty's common... look around... so you got lucky in the gene pool, big deal! ... whats really special is a great outlook on life, great energy and what you make of yourself.

Hit me back.
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You probably can notice a bit of Mystery, David DeAngelo and Style littered throughout that message. I will post her reply up here when/if i get it.

Alex V.

PS - the shopping date went really well, very relaxed, got a bit of bling for my peacocking that she helped me choose and we both ha. I had a go at styles 5 questions routine while we were eating lunch but fucked it up big time when i forgot which question I was up to... i really need to practice it a little more. I dont think she realised and I still tricked her into answering one of the questions correctly. I will let you all know if theres any more progress on this front.

Style's 5 Questions Routine

Here is a video of Style explaining the 5 Questions routine. It's a great as it's fun, playful and it busts on her... in essence it's a demonstration of higher value (DHV).

Vega Out.

The Perfect Pickup

Here is an example of a perfect pickup:

Just amazing! This guy really worked this set well and that redhead was loving it and she was giving TONS of IOI's.

Vega Out.

Tomorrow is the night

Tomorrow is the night. Tomorrow is the night that I start being proactive in my quest for the self-appointed title of 'Pick-Up Artist'. I have for a long time been studying material from greats in the community like David DeAngelo, Mystery and Style, but I think now is the time that I have to get out into the field and start working on myself and improving my game. I wouldn't say I am completely hopeless when, far from it, however I'm not anywhere near where I want to be and I won't stop until I am. For example, tomorrow I have a shopping date with a HB7, she's going to help me find some dressy shirts to wear out.. I have plenty of T-Shirts but not a whole lot of button up long sleeve shirts, which I think would really help with my peacocking. I have definitly received some Indicators of Interest (IOI's)

Probably my biggest issue is my Approach Anxiety (AA). Whenever I see a Hot Babe (HB) I instantly get all these images in my head of being rejected, and it really doesn't help at all because the fear of rejection turns me away from making the approach and opening the set. My resolve for this problem is to as Style says, chunk everything down. So first off I start off with my AA. I'm going to myself the goal tomorrow to open at least 5 sets. They don't have to be HB10's or anything, they could even be HB0's (although I'm going to try to keep away from them and they would probably be better referred to as UG's - ugly's lol) . I just need to get this AA sorted before I can progress. I will give the 3 second rule a go and see if it helps cure my AA. I have in my arsenal the 5 questions routine and the Best Friends Test, as well as the ESP routine. In the meantime, wait for my next post. Lets see how things go!

If you'd like to contact me personally you can send an email to alexvega96@gmail.com or post a comment on this blog.

Vega out.