Tomorrow is the night. Tomorrow is the night that I start being proactive in my quest for the self-appointed title of 'Pick-Up Artist'. I have for a long time been studying material from greats in the community like David DeAngelo, Mystery and Style, but I think now is the time that I have to get out into the field and start working on myself and improving my game. I wouldn't say I am completely hopeless when, far from it, however I'm not anywhere near where I want to be and I won't stop until I am. For example, tomorrow I have a shopping date with a HB7, she's going to help me find some dressy shirts to wear out.. I have plenty of T-Shirts but not a whole lot of button up long sleeve shirts, which I think would really help with my peacocking. I have definitly received some Indicators of Interest (IOI's)
Probably my biggest issue is my Approach Anxiety (AA). Whenever I see a Hot Babe (HB) I instantly get all these images in my head of being rejected, and it really doesn't help at all because the fear of rejection turns me away from making the approach and opening the set. My resolve for this problem is to as Style says, chunk everything down. So first off I start off with my AA. I'm going to myself the goal tomorrow to open at least 5 sets. They don't have to be HB10's or anything, they could even be HB0's (although I'm going to try to keep away from them and they would probably be better referred to as UG's - ugly's lol) . I just need to get this AA sorted before I can progress. I will give the 3 second rule a go and see if it helps cure my AA. I have in my arsenal the 5 questions routine and the Best Friends Test, as well as the ESP routine. In the meantime, wait for my next post. Lets see how things go!
If you'd like to contact me personally you can send an email to alexvega96@gmail.com or post a comment on this blog.
Vega out.
Friday, September 14, 2007
Tomorrow is the night
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Labels: approach anxiety
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